About Vain Mommy
Hi, I’m Rai Le — and I’m really glad you’re here.
Think of this space as our virtual playdate. The kind where kids are half-dressed, snacks are everywhere, someone is crying for no obvious reason, and somehow we still manage to have a meaningful conversation.
I’m a mom who genuinely loves her kids… and is honest enough to admit that some days I like them more than others. I care deeply about giving them the best childhood I can, even when that means making unconventional choices, asking hard questions, and going against the grain.
Homeschooling is one of those choices.
I enjoy being with my kids. I want to soak up these years while they’re still under my roof, still curious, still little. At the same time, I fully understand the fear that comes with homeschooling — the doubt, the second-guessing, the “am I doing this right?” moments that creep in when the house is quiet (or suspiciously too loud).
This blog exists for moms like us.
I share practical ideas, honest reflections, and bite-sized encouragement from our homeschool life — the good moments, the messy ones, and everything in between. You’ll find inspiration without pressure, guidance without perfection, and reassurance without judgment.
I keep things intentionally simple. No long-winded lectures. No complicated theories. Just helpful, real-life insights you can read quickly — like a grocery run with kids in tow. Get what you need and move on with your day.
We’re still early in our homeschooling journey, and I don’t claim to be an expert. The truth is, you don’t need to be one either. There’s no single “right” way to homeschool. There’s only the way that works for your family, your kids, and your season of life.
If you’ve ever felt excited and terrified at the same time…
If you’ve wondered whether you’re making the right call…
If you’ve celebrated small wins that no one else noticed…
You belong here.
Let’s figure this out together — one lesson, one meltdown, one victory at a time.
If you ever want to chat over a virtual cup of coffee, feel free to reach out. I’d love to hear from you.
— Rai
